I’m Not Ready for a Relationship (With You)

It is healthier to have liked than to not ever liked in any respect… BUT It is healthier to have escaped a doomed relationship than to have tried one in spite of everything.

This is an open letter addressed to those that have been rejected by somebody who was “not ready for a relationship.” Listen. It Is them, but it surely Is additionally You. They are sometimes not prepared, however principally, they aren’t prepared for somebody such as you. And, often, it has nothing to do with love. Two folks in love inevitably at occasions, simply can’t be collectively.

You Caught Me at a Bad Time…

Because I simply received out of a relationship. I’m nonetheless dealing
with my harm previous. My intimacy points. Life sucks now. I’m battling
payments. I need to go to highschool. I need to settle in my profession first.  My well being must be checked. I don’t need
any duty. Work’s hell. I like my freedom. I need to journey. My household
drives me loopy. I nonetheless have a lot to determine. I nonetheless don’t know who I’m
and what I need in life.

You’re Incompatible…

We can’t talk. Effectively. Someone’s too controlling. Too needy. Distant. Too closed off. We have too many cultural/non secular/political/background variations. What do we have now in frequent? We don’t share the identical large life objectives on profession, passions, values, funds, youngsters, love, and many others.

You Want Something Else…

I need a steady, companionate love. You need a passionate,
ever-consuming love. Or vice versa. You’re too sensible. You’re too dramatic.
I need to skip the friendship. You need to construct it. You need on a regular basis rapport.
I need loads of house. I need to be touched in a sure manner. You need to be
spoken to in a sure manner. I don’t need what you need. You don’t need what I
need.

You Don’t Need/Want Me The Way I Do…

Co-dependent. Casual. Marriage. Open Relationship.

You Don’t Match…

In Life Goals and Life Quality. Passion. For oneself, others, and life.

You’re Way Ahead of Me…

You’re shifting too quick.

You Are Ahead Me…

I’m shifting too sluggish.

Posted by Sarah Suhaimi

Sarah Suhaimi practices 명음 by day and the artwork of darkish chocolate bar swindling by evening. She is at present working intently with a native Pittsburgh non-profit that serves sex-trafficked victims, Living in Liberty, as a volunteer and grant proposal author. She based the Southeast Asian Student Alliance (SEASA) at her college, and, as properly, the “Offer Islam Campaign.” Her works differ from prose to poetry to articles. Her revealed works embody, ‘The Home of an Immigrant’s Daughter’ within the Art Catalogue for the 2012 Dublin Biennial, Dublin, Ireland and ‘Hidden Beauty Reveals Itself (Intellect Vs Instinct)’ within the Art Catalogue for the 2011 Florence Biennale VIII, Florence, Italy.