Longing. Pain. Desire. They are all difficult feelings. What
you need and what you want. What is unsuitable and what’s proper. The Past and the
Present. If you’re caught between two folks, may you really be in love with
each?
What was the
Timeline?
If you met each of them on the identical time, I imagine it will get so much trickier. You can’t “measure” what your coronary heart is feeling distinctly at one time window. There will probably be overlap. The first particular person may steal numerous issues however the final particular person can end what wasn’t recovered.
Is one an Ex
and a Rebound?
Did you will have
the intention of getting over another person by relationship this particular person? Can you see
this particular person outdoors of serving you as simply Transitional Man. Also, have you ever
really gotten over your Ex. If your Ex carries solely pesky painful recollections, then
he may simply be that- a reminiscence and never a related and actual particular person in your
life.
Is one Lust?
Are you
craving this particular person as a result of properly, it’s been a very long time because you had a scorching
contact. Maybe they simply supply one thing so novel from what you’ve ever
skilled. Maybe one thing forbidden. Or are you wanting an individual as a result of
you recognize they’re somebody you possibly can’t have.
Is one
Comfortable?
Is one particular person the safer selection. What you need and what you want are hardly ever the identical factor. Are you with this particular person as a result of it IS proper or since you THINK it’s proper. Is it additionally doubtlessly out of behavior?
Why the Hesitation?
Are they two sides of the identical coin? Someone begets ardour whereas one other radiates heat. Possibly, you simply need neither particular person. And the hesitation stems from a deep need to hesitate and never determine. On the opposite hand, hesitation could also be good, since you want wrestle earlier than you attain true happiness. When you are struggling, you are making an attempt.
There is a
Tipping Point…
Peoples’ hearts change. They put on out as properly. I feel there will be an overlap and that at a second, you possibly can love two folks on the identical time. But not as deeply and totally once you’ve determined to pour your coronary heart into one particular person. And in case you’re in that limbo, I’d simply trip it by means of. Feel for each totally till it’s evident who you really love.
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